If they find themselves attractive to that person they can have those thoughts. I would like to think that not all women are like that. Would you believe that a young woman you know would act that way? Alternatively, would you have those thoughts toward someone you liked? It is a romance novel. Not everyone will have the same thoughts. But love, love is tricky. Sometimes it happens unexpectedly. As far as thoughts goes, it depends on the thought. Can you be more specific in what the thoughts are?